FAQ

What is a BDSM Domme / Submissive session?
A BDSM experience is where everyone involved is in a consensual dynamic of power exchange. Both psychologically and physically.
To put it simply, it is when your mind goes blank, and I take over.

What makes your sessions unique?
There is no cookie cutter session or fixed way to execute any scene. It brings me deep fulfillment in attuning myself to your highly unique body of existence and using that to guide what needs to happen in a session. This means I rely on my intuition, deep presence, and our connection to flow through the experience.
Communication is highly encouraged throughout the process to continue to fine tune your experience.
Along with many years of personal and professional experience I bring into my work and your enthusiasm to submit to Me. I can assure a deeply unique experience for you to daydream about for many days to come.

What can I explore in a session with you?
I am open to all kinks. So, Often times it is a mix of many things.
And the context of what the many things are, is in your court to express to Me and depends on your interests and curiosities.
This might include but not limited to a strict D/S dynamic, a playful introductory of multiple kinks/activities, slow and intimate rope and shibari play, a high paced evil ball busting and/or humiliating experience or a fully restrained mummification moment. I have my full list of kinks, activities, fetishes and possibilities in my submission form.

How does a session 'go'?
Every session or meeting is highly unique, and distinctly different. This is the part I enjoy the most for how different each individual is and how that translates into its own unique dynamic.
Practically speaking, once you arrive, we both sit down for a quick chat, to go over your preferences, how you're feeling, how we will communicate during the session and safety reminders. After this, we begin going into your scene.
The speed of transition between chatting and scene depends on dynamic and preferences, but typically it goes one of two ways, either immediately (because you're comfortable, and willing), or gradual (typically the case for newbies or first timers). However, even in some newbie cases, I have witnessed many go into subspace rapidly. Usually in the cases of them being highly familiar with their own kinks.

What do I need to do to prepare for a session?
Short answer - Nothing!
Once your session is confirmed and in the calendar, you may start daydreaming and simply look forward to it.
However, if you want to familiarize yourself to Me, and my style. You can indulge yourself with my way of being via Twitter (I post almost everyday), and my content on Loyal Fans. (I have pics, videos, and audios in there that is only available in LF)
For pegging, deep cleaning is a must. If it gets too dirty during, pegging play will be discontinued, you'll be given a chance to clean again within session.

Do you see beginners?
Yes, it would be my absolute pleasure to allow you to explore this world, your kinks and curiosities with Me.
You don't need to have a clear cut idea. Or maybe you do! and let's see how much you like your fantasies when it is experienced in reality. Check off all things you are curious about in my form. If you are new, I often do each activity in a gentler and softer way to begin with.

Is everything confidential and discreet?
Confidentiality and discretion are my core way of being as a person as well as how I like to run my practice. I understand privacy is important for everyone involved, and it will be respected. This is a safe space where exploration is encouraged without any concern of judgement or exposure.

Do you work with couples?
Yes! Whether it is creating a scene with a couple or it be an educational/demonstrative session around how to be a good Dom(me) for your partner. We can make it happen.

Where are you based and do you travel?
I am based in Vancouver. And am open to travel for individuals who I already know and built trust with. The only city I am open to fly to first time meeting are any clients inquiring for their BDSM and domination experience from Hong Kong.

Can I see examples of your work?
Yes! You can see examples in my gallery within my website here and lots especially on my Twitter and Loyal Fans (session sneak peaks).

Do you do meets for coffee or in a casual setting?
Yes! I enjoy these, go to my Session Info and Etiquette page for more info on Vanilla Meets. This is $180CAD for the first hour and $100 per additional hour.